So at the end of my daughter's life, she was in the last year of high school. One year before that, she was 14 years old and she caught the flu. Like my son and so many other teenagers did, that year. She was up and night, more sick than we realised and we were talking. One thing I said, was like this "Gitty, you are fully valued and special for who you are. You don't need talents to shine or a super high IQ to begin to be considered. You are you and that's enough reason for